Are You a Man Facing Divorce?
Don’t Get Screwed!
Most men lose big in divorce—don’t be another statistic. Divorce is tough, but it doesn’t have to define you. Take control and rewrite your story!
How can a divorce coach help through this difficult process?
Divorce Coaching with The Derelict: Take Charge of Your New Beginning
Is your marriage beyond repair?
Are you overwhelmed by questions like:
- “What does life after divorce look like?”
- “How do I get through this?”
- “How do I rebuild when everything feels broken?”
If so, you’re in the right place.
Let’s Get Real:
- Friends and family might be giving you advice that makes things worse.
- Custody, assets, and legal battles are draining you.
- The stress feels overwhelming.
But here’s the truth: Your life isn’t over. It’s just beginning.
I’ve been where you are. Divorce felt like the end for me, too. But with the right support, I turned my darkest chapter into the foundation for an extraordinary life. Now, I’m here to help you do the same.
Why Choose Divorce Coaching with The Derelict?
At The Derelict, we understand the unique struggles men face during divorce because we’ve been there. Our coaching is grounded in experience and designed to guide you through every stage of this process—from preparation to healing and thriving.
We specialize in guiding men through the challenges of divorce with:
- Clarity: Understand your situation and take strategic action.
- Support: Build the right team—coaches, attorneys, and therapists who truly have your back.
- Self-Care: Strengthen your mental, physical, and emotional health.
- Fatherhood: Stay connected with your kids and be the dad they need.
- Healing: Avoid common mistakes, heal fully, and prepare for a brighter future.
Free Resource: “The 5 Traps Men Face in Divorce…and How to Triumph Over Them!”
Plus, join our Divorcing Men Group Coaching Call to learn how to:
- Avoid rushed, costly decisions.
- Build the right support team.
- Stay strong for your kids.
- Navigate divorce with confidence.
Send us a note with “group coaching” to claim your spot in the next coaching call here!
Curious what life after coaching looks like?
In 90 Days:
- Gain clarity and peace of mind.
- Rebuild confidence.
- Strengthen your relationship with your kids.
In One Year:
- Feel healthier and happier.
- Develop a strong co-parenting relationship.
- Start dating intentionally (when ready).
In Two Years:
- Look back on divorce as a transformative experience.
- Feel vibrant, grateful, and content—whether single or in a relationship.
Ready to Take the First Step?
Our clients have saved six figures, built thriving relationships with their kids, and become the most authentic, confident versions of themselves….
You don’t have to do this alone.
Join us to gain the tools, support, and perspective you need to turn this challenge into the foundation for your best life.
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So, what are the 5 traps men face in divorce? Here’s a sneak peak:
Don’t TRIGGER the divorce too soon!
What’s the hurry? Take your time to make sure this huge decision IS what you want to go through with and it’s the best option for you and your family.
Once it starts, though, make sure you have everything in writing! And I mean, EVERYTHING! Do it for yourself, for court, and for your kids
Don’t TRUST the wrong team!
BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LISTEN TO FOR ADVICE! It’s easy for well-meaning people to share all of their opinions and what their friend/neighbor/doctor said- and it could be TERRIBLE ADVICE!
I wish I could go back and pick some different team members. And that I didn’t just work with who seemed good. I wish I had a coach helping me along the way to make sure I picked the right person for my situation!
BE VIGILENT WITH WHO YOU SHARE WHAT WITH AS IT CAN ALL COME BACK ON YOU IN COURT!
Who’s on your team? Have you found the right coach, attorney, mediator, therapist, financial planner, forensic accountant, etc?
So how do you know who to trust? Well, wouldn’t it make sense to talk to someone who has been through a DIVORCE and also helped other MEN that went through a divorce? Come join one of our groups to talk to other men just like you!
Don’t TOSS self-care aside!
Remember, if you don’t take care of yourself, someone else will take care of you (and you probably won’t like it)! Take the high road- it WILL pay off!
The divorce process is PAINFUL! It doesn’t matter if you have a “friendly” or “contentious” divorce. It is painful either way- just remember two things:
You can choose to “medicate” your feelings/emotions, but it will only make them stronger later on!
Having pain is not the travesty, ignoring it is!
How’s your self-care regiment? Are you regularly doing things that help your mental, physical, and spiritual health? Are you exercising? Are you eating well? Are you drinking plenty of water? Are you meditating, writing, and praying? What are you filling your mind with- uplifting and encouraging or trauma-induced victim mentality garbage?
Remember, you experience what you focus on!
TURNING a blind eye to your kids
Have you moved out of the family house? Have you thought about it?
Have you moved your kids? Have you thought about it?
Here’s my advice: DON’T!
Many people don’t realize that making changes like this during the divorce process can GREATLY impact your ability to get a good amount of parenting time with your kids when all is said and done!
How active are you in your kids’ lives? Guess what: this is the time they need you the most! How can you get more involved with them today?
Are you talking trash to your kids about your ex? Are you using them as bargaining chips? This can have a major negative impact and there’s better way to deal with your pain! Trust me, I had to learn this the hard way!
Being respectful to your ex, especially in front of your kids, will always come back around as a blessing in the end! Are there ways you’d like to learn how to do this, very practically?
TANKING relationships during/post-divorce
First, DON’T DATE! Just DON’T!
I promise, it will just delay your healing process! You might tell me it’s not a “rebound” and this person is “different”.
Trust us, you aren’t ready! And that’s okay!
We’re just trying to save you from pain. Everyone that we have worked with has been very clear that they wish they would have waited longer to date. Spending time to work on themselves and heal from their relationship. We haven’t spoken to ONE PERSON who wishes they would have started dating sooner! We’re here to offer practical advice and tips of your “single period”- we want you to be in the best possible position to date your IDEAL PARTNER later on- but it can’t be rushed! But let us help you avoid the common mistakes and traps- learn from our failures!
Do you relate at all?
Maybe you’re wondering if it’s too late for you.
Maybe you’ve already started the divorce process. Maybe you have the team in place. Maybe you’re already divorced. Well, ask yourself. Are you living your best, most free, and authentic life yet? From our experience, this takes years after a divorce of intense healing and working on yourself!
Any desire to speed up that process?
Well, good news, you can! If you have a coach working with you during that process, we’ve seen years taken off the process!
Men we’ve coached have saved 6-7 figures implementing the strategies we suggest! Men we’ve coached have gotten more quality time with their kids! Men we’ve coached have come out the other side healthier, more authentic versions of themselves! if you follow the simple advice of our coaching, you will experience a brand new life in as little as a few months. But, what about later- what do you have to look forward to?
How does it look ONE YEAR after divorce?
– Be able to BREATHE!
– You’ll find BEAUTY in singleness!
– Create a dating plan and start exploring ideal PEOPLE to date!
– Have a consistent, repeatable, and secure schedule with your KIDS!
– Have a less contentious relationship with your EX-SPOUSE!
– Have more INNER-PEACE!
– Enjoy working on yourself and HEALING!
– Improve your relationship with yourself and your HIGHER POWER!
How about THREE YEARS?
– DATING people that fit your IDEAL PARTNER criteria! Maybe even found someone by now!
– You’re HEALTHY, HAPPY, and VIBRANT!
– You wouldn’t trade DIVORCE for anything in the world!
– So GRATEFUL for everything your divorce taught you!
– Single or Partnered- CONTENT with myself either way!
– Better FATHER, PARTNER, and FRIEND!
– Beautiful relationship with myself and my Higher Power!
So, what are you waiting for? Are you ready to commit to healing the best way possible for yourself?
If you haven’t already, shoot me a note and we’ll send you our ebook “The 5 Traps Men Face in Divorce and How to Triumph Over Them!” for FREE and invite you to our next group coaching call! Just write the phrase “ebook and coaching” her: